The Mask You Live In

Investing in the emotional well being of our boys and young men may be the silver bullet for a healthier society. Make no mistake, emotional unresolved pain with ineffective coping strategies is at the root of misogyny, violence, rape, domestic abuse, depression, hate crimes, suicide, substance abuse and more.
- boys are 2x as likely to be victims of physical abuse
- boys are 4x as likely to commit suicide
- emotionally disturbed boys outnumber girls by 4 to 1
By age 9, most boys have learned to repress all primary feelings except anger. Thus "rage becomes the principle conduit for repressed pain, fear, sadness and grief." The bottom line from my perspective is how do we as a society do a better job of bringing a sense of purpose, meaning, belonging and a way of offloading emotions, including stress and anger, in ways that are adaptive and not harmful. I believe it is a modern day imperative.
Copied from Lucy Caldwell

Click Here to Watch the Video

Comments

Meaning of Christmas

Merry Christmas to you. Merry: Happy Christ: the anointed one and the anointing Mas: Carnival Celebration (West Indian word) This means Happy Christ Carnival Celebration to you. This is the period we celebrate Christ, the birth of our Savior, the Messiah. Not everyone celebrating Christmas know what they are celebrating. Some think it's just time to be merry with family and friends or go out to all sorts of places and have fun, eat Christmas rice, food and drinks. But what's Christmas rice without Christ. What's the need celebrating Christmas without Christ; without having Christ; without being born again. The son of God became the son of man so the sons of man become sons of God. He came to give us life; anyone who doesn't have Zoe (the God kind of life) is dead to God. He is dead spiritually, alienated from God. God told Adam that when he eats of the apple in the midst of the garden he'll surely die and he did. He was alienated (cut off) from his sou

Nigerian Currencies

At first, Cowries were used for buying and selling before banknotes and coins were introduced into the Nigerian economy. Payments mostly made in cups or in bags. .. There was also the Trade by Barter System: adopted by people who lived in the same locality, and it involved giving what you had in exchange for what you needed. You could exchange a cow for 5 goats etc. .. The Nigerian shillings were issued in 1958/1959 Even though this denomination is no longer in use in present day Nigeria, the shilling is the legal tender in Kenya and Uganda. .. The Nigerian pound issued in 1967: This was the legal tender used in Nigeria back then. Currently 1 pound is over 500 Naira. .. Another 5 shilling note issued in 1968: This was done as a strategy of war, the shillings notes were changed to reflect different colours. While the banknotes were changed, the coins remained unchanged and in circulation. .. 1 pound notes were reintroduced in a different colour in

Handle things wisely

Some times you've got to leave the good for the greater good, be the villian to save the girl. Hit the ground to touch the sky. Do wrong to make it right. You got to look ahead and forfeit now pleasures. Be heartless to let wrong emotions go. You've got to walk alone to make a difference. You've got to be silent to observe the hawk. Fake your acts to bewilder the snake. Quiet as dove but dangerous as scorpion. You've got to prune the tree from its branch, let go of the boys and take the boss. Handle the hard ones the light ones will succumb. Know priorities and handle them first. If you can't take the rest and the audience are disappointed. Take the blame and be a man. Please your long-term and the short term is included. The lesser is included in the greater. Be a man of wise choices. Besides, maturity calls.

Zivry

Search This Blog